Aug. 17, 2020

Intimacy

Intimacy
On this episode of k, thanks. the ladies tackle intimacy. Not just sex, there are many different types of intimacy that you use in all walks of life, with friendships as well as relationships. We all learned a few things when researching this topic so we hope you learn something too on this enlightening episode of k, thanks!0:00 - 1:00 - Introductions1:00 - 1:30 - Sex can build intimacy, it is not intimacy itself1:50 - 9:00 - Ways of building emotional intimacy9:30 - 11:00 - Losing intimacy with someone, getting distant and how the girls deal with not talking to someone anymore11:50 - 12:20 - Ikram discusses managing your expectations for people and being there for your friends!12:25 - 14:00 - Separating from emotional intimacy to showing someone a map of your brain15:00 - 17:00 - Building emotional intimacy with people you don’t agree with, respecting different beliefs and values17:30 - 21:00 - Staying up all night with your partner and getting that initial spark back and remembering why you love them!21:00 - 21:30 - Being able to sit comfortably in silence with someone21:30 - 30:00 - Physical intimacy with friends and relationships (touching, kissing ORRR really great hugs!)31:00 - 39:00 - Having intimacy with people you don’t actually like but you have some common interests, religion and experiences (Experimental Intimacy)40:00 - 45:00 - Getting into a relationship without the right mindset or tools to form the right kind of intimacy with someone, just show up and be supportive!45:00 - 48:00 - Ikram will happily drive you to your ex’s house if you want to have a psycho moment and stalk them48:00 - 48:30 - Intimacy isn’t something that happens over night, it comes over time48:45 - 49:10 - Healthy emotional intimacy has real world health benefits!50:00 - 56:00 - How to let go of your fears from past relationships and allow yourself to build intimacy with someone, you have one life, don’t lose out on any of these emotions!56:00 - 60:00 - Set aside time to prioritise your relationship because once you lose intimacy it can be hard to get it back!60:00 - END - Final thoughts, conclusions, shoutouts and outros! BE WEIRD. STAY WEIRD.